Through this process of trial and error, seeing what works for you and what doesn’t, you’ll slowly build up an encyclopedia of dirty talking phrases and strategies that will keep your man obsessed. Tailor It To His Tastes – Almost every guy on the planet adores it when you talk dirty to him, but…it’s vital that you quickly learn what type of dirty talk phrases he likes most. Some guys prefer it when you are subtle and even polite with your dirty talk while others prefer it when you are super explicit. Talking dirty to your boyfriend or husband is the absolute best way to build sexual tension with him.
- Many women think using dirty talk phrases like the ones below is something that’s reserved for the bedroom only.
- A greater sense of intimacy can blossom in your relationship by learning how to talk dirty.
- Using these dirty phrases throughout the day or sexting him when he’s in the middle of his work day is just as important as using them mid-coitus.
- Physical intimacy is therefore more at the mercy of the conventions of dirty talk than it has ever been before.
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For example, you might ask, ‘Do you like how I feel? ’ or ‘What would you do if I stroked you like this? ’” And see how your partner’s response might turn up the heat. Dr. Tara says one accessible way to talk dirty is to simply describe (exactly) what’s happening as you’re having sex. This can be really erotic and doesn’t require you to quickly recall phrases or scenarios. Talking dirty introduces an additional sense (hearing) to any sexcapade, which stimulates the brain in a way that goes beyond just touch.
A Beginner’s Guide to Talking Dirty Virtually or IRL
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As with most things to do with eroticism, it’s often the least politically correct things that are some of the biggest turn ons behind closed bedroom doors. Dirty talk may feel strange at first as you pick your brain for the perfect dirty things to say to your partner. Relax a little—talking dirty isn’t an exact science, and navigating it relies more on how comfortable you are versus how much you know about it. Here’s how to talk dirty during sex, plus sexy things to say to your partner outside the bedroom to build excitement. By means of dirty talk, Steffano subordinates the preppie’s erotic responses to his own, thus serving as the principal narrator of the scene, the man in charge, not only of the action, but of the commentary on the action as well.
And research supports that when these bids are accepted, they not only improve overall relationship satisfaction but ultimately build trust between partners,” says Rullo. “In a relationship, trust is incredibly sexy,” she finishes. Similarly, you should start an erotic conversation in the bedroom if he isn’t in the habit of getting naughty texts from you. It might be too off-putting or strange if you suddenly start sending him texts telling him that his cock is harder than any man’s you’ve ever seen.
Think of yourself as a narrator.If you find yourself at a loss for words, there’s an easy remedy. Start narrating what you’re doing to your partner’s body and how they make you feel. That doesn’t mean you have to go full-on David Attenborough–style nature documentary (that said, if roleplay is your thing …). But it at least gives you some material to work with until you feel more comfortable coming up with your own original material. This type of dirty talk is just asking questions that encourage a partner to dirty talk back to you, whether by narrating their experience, offering a compliment, or relaying directions in response.
If you’re going to do it harder, whisper it in her ears before you do it. If you’re going to bite her neck or let your hands wander, breathe into her ears and tell her before you do it. Don’t try to say a bunch of these things if they sound foreign and awkward coming out of your mouth. This is extremely effective because of the parallels. A really deep, romantic kiss will already turn her on and then you say something very dirty when she’s expecting something sweet.
Even if it’s not technically dirty talk, the minimum requirement is knowing my partner is turned on. Start small, ramp up over time, and ask your partner (outside of your sexual play) if they have any preferences as to the words that you do or don’t use in your dirty talk repertoire. Make sure you check in with your partner (outside of the bedroom, when you aren’t being sexual with each other) to see if there’s any words that they want you to avoid during your dirty talk. The comfort you feel in your relationship has everything to do with what you’re willing to try sexually. “Talking with your partner(s) beforehand about your interests in dirty talk can be a great way to reduce the anxiety when you’re actually in the moment,” sex and relationships therapist Kamil Lewis, AMFT, tells mbg. Now that you know to combine sexual tension, and infuse more intensity into your sex life with dirty talk, you can likely see where this is leading.
Then, those feelings will carry over into your sex life. According to Lee-ann Cordingley, a clinical sexologist and sex coach, dirty talk can trigger feelings of vulnerability, especially for men who may be used to expressing themselves with physical touch rather than words. Still, she stresses that the benefits outweigh the risks here.